Monday, June 15, 2009

April and May - Showered with Blessings!

It's been sooooo long since I've worked on this blog, but life has kept me so busy the past few months that other things had to take priority. Highest on the top of that priority list has been family. My sweet Mama arrived from Arkansas in the middle of April and stayed for about three weeks. Our son and his family arrived just a few days before Mother's Day, and it's the first time in many years we've all been together: Children and grandchildren, nieces and nephews, aunts and uncles, cousins, and of course my sweet Mama. What a precious Mother's Day it was, for all of us! Needless to say, we took up a whole row in church that Sunday morning. My Mama got the prize for having traveled the farthest, and my daughter got the prize for being homebound with sick children (recently) the longest. One of my friends asked me later if I had rigged that event, but I have to say it was as much a surprise to me as it was to them - Mama & Cathy.



This is Mama on Mother's Day of May 2009 (76 years old).


And these are some of the special moments she shared with her great grandchildren while she was here.


It didn't realize how difficult it would be to play catch up after not blogging for three whole months, so I'm not even going to try to remember everything that I would have recounted here for all of you. I do remember being ill for about eight weeks before my Mama arrived, and I was so thankful that no one got sick while she was here visiting. I also have to think about the fact that June is almost over, and I'll be working on another blog in just a few days. Good grief! Is the year half over already?


I wish I could show all the other pictures we took or comment on some of the special moments that took place between the cousins and between my Mama and her other great grandchildren. There were some very precious moments, memories that will not be forgotten. Our son and daughter-in-law prefer that we not post their pictures or mention their names in our blogs (Cathy's and mine). We must honor their request, of course, but it's sad that I cannot share them with you. They are all very precious to us and we're proud of all of them!


Grandchildren are definitely one of the best of God's blessings, and we (Jim & I) have eight of them. They range in age from 2 to 13, and I close with a photo of me and my youngest grandson, Lincoln. You just can't beat it - strolling hand in hand with a grandchild who is in no hurry to get somewhere or do something. Soon enough they don't have time for this, but I'll take it for as long and as often as I can get it and cherish every moment of it. Praise God for Papa and his camera! This was one of those priceless moments that I really didn't want to end.




Friday, April 3, 2009

March Madness

Another month has come and gone, but so many memories were made in the month of March. Why am I calling it March Madness, then? I assure you, it has nothing to do with basketball. And, near as I can tell, there were no moments of anger, dementia, insanity or lunacy (some folks may want to debate that). However, one of the choices for madness, defined by Webster's dictionary, is wild excitement! That's what we experience almost anytime our grandchildren are involved. Spring break week brought a tidal wave of wild excitement, but I must not get ahead of myself. So . . . . I'll start from the beginning . . . . of the month of March, that is . . . . with our beautiful daughter's birthday! It was March 3rd, and we (Cathy, Emma, Lincoln & I) celebrated by having lunch at Chipotle Grill - Cathy's choice. Our family celebration couldn't take place until the following weekend, but I couldn't let my daughter's birthday go by without doing something special for her. She is beautiful on the inside, as well as on the outside, and her Dad & I are very proud of her and the woman she has become. Believe it or not, Emma took this first picture of her Mama and her Mimi. She may become our family's next great photographer!


We had some really good food and a great time.


Five days later, on Sunday, March 8th (same year, of course), our family celebration took place at our house. The entire menu was Cathy's choice: fried chicken, mashed potatoes & gravy, corn on the cob, and Marie Calendar's Razzleberry pie (with ice cream) for dessert. We had to wait about three hours to have dessert (because we were all so full from dinner - well, at least the adults were), but it was worth the wait! Our grandson, Will, didn't think we would ever have dessert :) Three hours was way too long for him!

So, obviously this is Cathy, our beautiful birthday girl!


And, this is her whole beautiful/handsome family. What a good looking group, eh?


March 15th - my Mama's birthday! She turned 76, and the highlight of her day (I think) was getting an evening phone call from her very first grandchild (our son). She called me the next day to tell me all about it (for those of you who don't know this, she lives about 2,000 miles away from us). Since I wasn't there to spend her birthday with her, I couldn't take a picture. When she comes here for a three week visit in late April, I will be sure to snap several photos of her then.

Now . . . . for the infamous Spring break week! March 23rd - 27th was full of wild excitement! Well, it actually started out with some extra sleep (much needed), a few chores (not so exciting) and some planning for how to make the most of what was left. In the middle of the week, I enjoyed an all day girlfriend day with my best friend. Corinna picked me up at 9 am, and here's how the day progressed: Coffee, talking, an errand here and there, talking, visiting with her great aunt, talking, lunch at our favorite place (Love Love's Teriyaki), talking, visiting with her sister-in-law & my friend, talking, back to my house for tea and more talking. It was a great day and a great time, and it may not have been the wildest time we've ever spent, but it certainly was an exciting time. We loved having the whole day together! And . . . . as I promised back in January, when I didn't take a current picture of my best girlfriend on her birthday, here is a picture of Corinna Jean, actually taken on our very special girlfriend day.

On the next day, I accompanied our kids & grandkids to the Gilbert House. Most of my pictures here did not turn out so great, but they sure had a fun time!


Exploring

Swinging

Smiling :)

On Friday/Saturday (yes, overnight, too!) is when the really wild exciting times began. Papa had Friday off, so it was just the two of us and our three wild sweet grandchildren! There was some backyard play . . . . with an occasional pose for a picture.


The two older ones would stop and pose, but the youngest . . . . well, sometimes, we just had to take what we could get, because when he's outside . . . . posing for pictures is a waste of time!

Inside play took on a different theme this time around, as the characters of the Chronicles of Narnia came to life in our living room. We had to have two kings and a princess, and homemade crowns were just the ticket.



And like any obedient Papa would do, he let his granddaughter dress him up too!

By this time, we must have been too tired to take pictures of the balloon batting/blowing contests, they had on Saturday afternoon. Other special events, on this two day adventure, included baking & eating chocolate chip cookies, lots of coloring, and of course, taking baths! Some day that is likely to change, at least for the boys, but for now they all love their bath times, especially at Papa & Mimi's house. We think they had a fun time, and they went home about bed time Satuday night. Needless to say, Papa & I slept in on Sunday morning and went to the second service (something we rarely do). But you know what? We asked for this - for those two days with an overnighter. It was actually our idea! And that is what's so good about it. While we're in recovery, we're already putting together a plan to request an overnighter with just Will. He wanted to watch Prince Caspian, and we were afraid it would be too scary for Emma and Lincoln. So . . . we're thinking that would be a great way for us to have some special one-on-one time with Will, and of course, we'll make popcorn!

Until next month, I pray for sunshine and warmth and that the Lord our God will shower you all with His most magnificent blessings and that April will be absolutely awesome! I know it will be for me - with my Mama's coming visit! Maranatha!

Saturday, March 14, 2009

25 random things about me . . . . .

1. I took ballet lessons for the very first time as an adult, at about the age of 27 - I think. My pastor's wife, at that time, invited me to join her in this fun adventure. And that is precisely why we did it, for fun and a little bit of exercise.


2. When I was almost 30, I joined one of those diet/exercise places (not Curves, but rather Venus de Milo) and impressed the owners so much that they published my before and after pictures in the local newspaper, along with my measurements and weight loss figures.


3. I took voice lessons in high school and sang in a competition where I had to sing two songs in two different foreign languages. I think they were in french and german. I didn't get any awards, but it was fun and a good experience.


4. My husband and I met for the very first time on February 14, 1970 (yes, Valentine's day!) and married on September 26, 1970 (7 months later). This year we will celebrate our 39th anniversary, for both events! :)


5. I had the surprise of my life, while working as a secretary at a green house manufacturing company, when I got a call from Angela Lansbury (actress, for those of you who are too young to know). We spoke for awhile, and she confirmed (accent and all) that she was THE Angela Lansbury, and she wanted to order a green house for her hobby of growing orchids.


6. Somewhere between the years of 1978 - 1982, my husband and I saw Frank Bonner (he played Herb Tarlek on WKRP in Cincinnati) walking through the Dallas, TX airport. He looked just like he did on the show, except for his cowboy boots and hat.


7. About 25 years ago (I think) I drove a school bus for one whole school year and was labeled by my students with the title of Sargeant Brown. I didn't put up with any bullies on my bus, and I was very strict about everyone following the rules (such as staying seated & keeping arms and legs inside the bus - not hanging out the windows). It's not easy being an authority figure when you're shorter than some of the students. It was way more fun driving that bus when it was empty.


8. My hair was mostly gray by the time I was 45, but I've been told repeatedly that my hair is a lovely shade of gray. Now it's almost white!


9. I was about 42 when my first grandchild was born. I actually enjoyed being a young grandmother. Now that first grandchild is 13 and quite a bit taller than me.


10. Just the other day, as I was walking out of a grocery store to my car, an older gentleman got my attention by calling out, "Miss . . . oh, miss . . . ," and then went on to say, "That's a really nice head of hair you have." After I thanked him, he then stated, "And I'm not some parking lot weirdo, either!"


11. Like most folks, I love chocolate, but I actually prefer my chocolate spread over cherries, raisins, nuts or coconut. I also love chocolate covered caramel.


12. As for caramel, I love it all by itself - and a multitude of other ways. Caramel lattes are my favorite coffee drink. But caramel goes with so many things, such as popcorn, ice cream, apples, and the list goes on. I'll try caramel on anything, at least once.


13. I was a jacks champion in my late elementary school years, and I wasn't bad when it came to double jump ropes either. You wouldn't know it to look at me now, and I've gotten very clumsy too.


14. I had my first steady boyfriend when I was in the second grade, and my parents even let me have after school dates with him, as long as they were present.


15. When our two children were in jr. high & high school, we took family snow skiing trips of the downhill variety. The rest of my family turned out to be very good skiiers. It wasn't all that uncommon for folks to fall getting off the lift when they were just learning. But, I was the only one who ever fell off the lift while trying to get on, even after I was considered experienced.


16. When I was in the second grade I had to have my tonsils out, along with my older sister and my younger brother. Yes, that's right! All three of us at the same time! Can't imagine how difficult that must have been for my Mama. Three little kids, approx. ages six, eight and ten, having tonsilectomies all at the same time. What a handful that must have been for her!


17. When I was in the fourth grade I had to have my appendix removed. Here's the humorous part of the story: I hated math, and my Mama knew it. Just before math class for several days in a row, I'd complain of a stomach ache so the school nurse would call my Mama to come get me. She was sure I was faking it just to get out of math class. Finally, one day when she came and got me she told me she was taking me directly to the doctor to find out once and for all if there was really anything wrong with me. When the doc. told her that if she had waited much longer to bring me in my appendix might have ruptured, she was horrified and told me how sorry she was that she hadn't believed me. I, on the other hand, was shocked to find out I had to have surgery, because I was beginning to believe myself that it was having to go to math class that was giving me the stomach aches.


18. Even though I think of myself as being from Arkansas (because that's what I remember most from my early childhood), I was actually born in Chicago. My sibling before me was born in AR, and my sibling after me was born there too, but my parents moved to Chicago before I was born and went back to Arkansas shortly afterward. And I've never been back there to see my birthplace. Weird, huh?


19. Once upon a time, in the small church we attended, I was the church organist and pianist. How could that possibly work, you ask? Well, I played the organ during prayer times and offering, and before and after the service began. But for the congregational singing and special music, I moved over to the piano to play. It was a challenge, to say the least, and it went on this way for a very long time.


20. A very musical and talented uncle of mine, taught me to sing harmony at a very young age. I think I was about seven years old. My sister (two years older) sang soprano, and we were quite the singing duo for many years. Now whenever I go back to Arkansas for a visit, we almost always sing a duet in my Mama's church and/or a trio with my brother included in the mix.


21. Regarding #20, my elementary school principal (who also attends my Mama's church), is often one of the first to request that we be allowed to sing.


22. I think I was in the fourth grade, when I stepped up to my teacher (Mr. Spencer) and addressed him as Mama. I was mortified, but he found it quite humorous. In fact, he remembered it fondly to my Mama many times over the years following (even after I became an adult and moved away), whenever he happened to see her around town.


23. My first date with the man I ended up marrying, was a ride up into the hills on his motorcycle. He didn't actually ask me for that date himself. His sister did! She called me up and asked me if I'd go for a ride with Jim on his motorcycle. When I asked her why he wasn't calling me himself, she said he didn't want to hear me say 'no.' Well, I went with him on that motorcycle date, and the rest is history. Oh, and by the way, he maintains that that was my first date with a real man, and yet, he had his sister do the calling :)


24. Most folks that don't know any better, are under the impression that I am older than my husband. And I suppose that's understandable, since he has very little gray hair and mine is almost all white. However, there's actually a 5-1/2 year difference in our ages, and he is definitely the elder!


25. I didn't think I would ever make it to this number. Finally, the last one! I have no idea what there could possibly be left to tell, except for something I have no intention of telling :) So, let me just end this by quoting my favorite version of the 23rd Psalm, my paraphrase, that is:


The Lord is my Shepherd, and that is all I want!

Monday, March 2, 2009

Fantastic February!

February 1st was Super Bowl Sunday! Not that I care about football in the least, but it was a great afternoon with our best friends, David & Corinna, and a bunch of their extended family members. We had a great time and consumed way too much food, but it was all really good!







This is not a recent picture of David & Corinna, but they really haven't changed a bit.









On February 13th, we celebrated our grand daughter's birthday (a little early) and had a wonderful time with family and friends.





Emma got a cool pink bean bag chair from her Mama & Daddy.



And she helped make her own birthday "pupcakes" that looked like mice.

And now she's five years old! Seems like only yesterday she was just a baby - our sweet little Emma Grace (or as her Papa likes to say, Emma de Gracie). She's still very sweet, but we sure wish she wouldn't grow up so fast.

Then Jim & I celebrated Valentine's day in one of our favorite restaurants, Olive Garden. We actually met on Valentine's day, for the very first time. So, now we've known each other for 39 years, and we've been married almost as long (a 7 month courtship, believe it or not).


Our waiter took very good care of us, and he told us that his parents actually got married on Valentine's day. We had a wonderful time, and of course, great food!


On the next day we had the pleasure of enjoying our youngest grandson, Lincoln, for the entire Sunday afternoon. It was just us and him, playing and having alot of fun. He's such an agreeable picture poser, and there's no end to the antics he'll perform for us. What a cutie!






At the very end of the month, our church had it's anual Women's Retreat, and as usual it was wonderful. We had a great speaker, good food and wonderful fellowship with our sisters in Christ. Cathy went with a group of her friends, and I went with a good friend of mine.





This is my daughter, Cathy, and me . . . . .



. . . . and this is my good friend and room mate, Laurie.


While all of the above sounds like very nice things, you may be thinking that with a title like Fantastic February, there ought to be something more, something else, something truly fantastic. Well, there is, but it didn't take place on any given day or hour. It was an accumulation of things that add up to answered prayer and a whole lot of praises. God is good!

Allow me to refer you back to Adventure #1, which was posted on January 10th. After you've read that (or refreshed your memory), you'll understand how exciting this next part is. Our drastically reduced income over the past month and a half, has been supplied in a variety of truly miraculous ways. First . . . . we received two checks, from two very different sources, for two very different reasons, neither one of which knew about the other or had anything to do with our current circumstances. Those two checks added up to more than what we needed to meet our deficit for the rest of January and all of February. Secondly . . . . during the month of February, I got more calls to substitute for the school district than I have since I started back in August of 2008. That paycheck will cover our deficit for the month of March! Third . . . . our tax refund should take care of April, and we have no doubt whatsoever, that God is behind each and every one of these wonderful blessings. Thanks to all of you who have been praying for us.

So I proclaim it in a loud voice (imagine hearing me if you can), Holy, Holy, Holy is the Lord God Almighty, who is worthy to be praised!!! Hallelujah!!! Praise the Lord!!!




Monday, February 16, 2009

January Memories

January flew by so fast I almost didn't get my monthly update posted before it was time to concentrate on February! Since we're half way into the second month of the year (and I'll have to do this again in a couple of weeks), I guess I'd better get crack-a-lackin (that's one of my best friends favorite words). Speaking of my best friend (there should be a picture of her here, but I'm still not very organized with this bloggin thing, so maybe next month - I'll try), she loves to create her own words, and they never fail to bring a smile to my face. She's a hoot! She also had a birthday in January, the 10th to be exact. Yes, we did celebrate her birthday, so you're wondering why I didn't take a picture for my blog. Hmmm.......I'm still learning and will probably not ever be the expert my daughter is at blogging. She's good - really good :)

In any case, the month of January was full of birthdays for our family (and a few friends), but I only managed to get one good picture. However, that will have to wait until further down the page, because guess what? Getting the right pictures in the right place sometimes gets the best of me.

Our grandson, Will, is playing Upward basketball this year. The following pics are of his very first game. See how well he guards his own dribble? Pretty terrific for a first-grader, eh?


His Papa took these pictures (if I had taken them they'd be too blurry), and they're better than average if you ask me :) Good shot, Will! What a leap! Keep it up, and you'll be playing with the pros someday. That is, of course, if you want to. Papa and I are very proud of you.



Papa had a birthday in January, and I took the pictures. Hmmm.......sorry I didn't get a good one of the special cake his daughter and the grandkids made for him. It sure was yummy though, and we had fun celebrating his special day. Fortunately, there was one picture that turned out pretty good (I think I'm going to have to take a photography class or have someone else take the pictures for me). I'm sure Papa will cherish this picture of his night-night love from Lincoln, for many years to come. What a little sweatheart, and he sure does love his Papa.




Well, I think that's about it, or as much as my mind will let me remember anyway. Hopefully, I'll get right on February's highlights before March is here. Good grief! That's only twelve days away! Guess I'd better get crack-a-lackin! Thanks for sharing, Corinna Jean :)

By the way, Corinna's hubby celebrated his birthday in January too. As well as, my brother, our daughter-in-law, a cousin, another good friend, and of course, my Daddy - who is celebrating every day of the year, because he's in heaven with Jesus. I miss you, Daddy, but I'm happy for you to be where you are, and I know you are NOW feeling good all the time. And I thank God for that!

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Adventure #1

Little did I know when I posted my last article, that we'd be faced with our first major adventure of the year, just a few days later. On the evening of January 7th, my husband came home from work and told me that his boss had given him two options that day: take a $5 an hour pay cut or be laid off! Now, one might say that any pay check and health insurance is better than no pay check and no insurance. But, along with that pay cut comes a change in position within the company - namely, giving up his desk job for a physically laborious position out in the shipping department. On top of that it's ten hour days! For a 60 year old man who's had back problems and open heart surgery, it's not all that appealing. However, Jim didn't really feel like he had a choice in the matter, because who else is going to hire an older guy in this economy?



Those of you who know my husband well might already have guessed what kinds of things he would have said to me that evening. Things like: "God is not surprised by this. He just might know what He's doing :) I'm just thankful that I still have a job when so many are unemployed."



So begins, our first great (scary) adventure of 2009. What a way to start the year!

Friday, January 2, 2009

Looking back . . . .

. . . . at 2008 and what inspired me to become a blogger. So much to tell and too little time, but here goes (please keep in mind that I'm a rookie at this):

Last year brought a lot of changes, upheavals, surprises, you know the drill - but with God's help we survived, and we're looking forward to the next adventure. That's what we seem to be experiencing during this stage of our lives, one great adventure after another. Thus the term, well seasoned, or at least that is what it means to us (my sweet husband and I). We're not done yet, that is to say God isn't finished with us yet, but He sure is pouring on lots of seasoning along the way!
Loss of income and a forced move define the changes and upheavals. The surprises could be better defined as blessings, since they include being reunited with children, grandchildren and a multitude of friends, which were not happy when we moved away three years ago. We are also blessed to be back at our old church, which we missed more than we thought possible. Last, but not least, Jim got his old job back and we really needed that!
A personal blessing for me last year, was spending a month with my Mama and attending a family reunion. That allowed me to reconnect with cousins I haven't seen or communicated with in years! It was during that visit that I decided to make every effort to stay connected, so I gathered email addresses for cousins, aunts and uncles. My daughter gave me the idea of creating a blog and has been very helpful and encouraging in the process of getting it started. Lord willing, I'll be dedicated to keeping it updated and my relatives will actually read it - hint, hint! :) You can see Cathy's blog by clicking on the link at the right side called, Dancing In The Rain. You won't be sorry if you do, and you'll see why her blog idea is so effective in staying in touch.
Not long ago I had a wonderful grandkid day, and here's some pictures to prove it:
This is Will having his afternoon tea break. There's not many things he'll sit this still for.












This is Emma, frosting her fresh baked "pupcakes!"














This is Lincoln and Mimi, coloring and smiling :)

Aren't they the cutest kids you've ever seen? This grandma sure thinks so. Living near to them is huge in the blessing department, and they never get tired of spending time at Papa & Mimi's house!

The next two pictures were taken at our church right after the Christmas eve service, and this concludes my writings for looking back. It's time to look forward to the new year and the new adventures, which will be highlighted along the way - all the better to keep you all updated! :)


Emma, Billy, Will, Cathy and Lincoln.














Just the two of us!